We’ve walked down a few rocky roads to get here and after 27 years of marriage, here are a few things I find incredibly attractive in MY man and one that makes him IRRESISTIBLE!

• He can bring home the bacon AND fry it up in the pan.  As I’ve increased my working hours Steve has become incredibly helpful in cooking meals which frees me up to be his helpmate in other areas.  Men, don’t be afraid to make your way in the kitchen.  Ladies, get out of his way in the kitchen and let him do his thing even if it’s different than your thing!

• He works hard to support our family and keeps it positive.  He rarely complains and yet patiently listens to me communicate every detail of my day.

• He is an unselfish lover.  That’s all I need to say about that.  Husbands, be unselfish lovers.  Wives, give your man the opportunity to be an unselfish lover.  It’s a gift from the Lord and healthy for our marriages.

• He verbally expresses his love for me and tells me I am beautiful on a regular basis.  He says it with such sincerity that I believe his sincerity. Men, sincerely tell your wife how much you admire her beauty.  Ladies, accept & acknowledge his words as truth.

• And here is something I find IRRESISTIBLE about MY man.  Are you ready for this?  He prays for me!  A few weeks ago I felt overwhelmed with the responsibilities of my day.  My stress had reached an unhealthy level.  Sensing my heaviness he acted and what happened next made him irresistible!  He wrapped his big strong arms around me and began to pray over me and my day.  As the words flowed from his mouth I admired him all the more for his leadership!

Men, pray over your wife!  There is little more appealing to us than to have our husband lead with prayer!

Ladies, what do you find attractive about your man?

 

 Copyright©2014, Gloria Stucky

 

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